By Crystal Andrus
Most self-help books (even ones I love!) often tell us that wanting something badly enough is the secret to receiving it.
The best-seller “Think and Grow Rich” written by Napoleon Hill states “the root of all success is a burning desire.” And as much as I agree, we must really want something in order to manifest it, creating your greatest life takes more than just wanting it.
If wanting was enough, we’d all have it! Here’s my powerful five-step Action-Attraction Formula to getting what you want:
- Make a list of the things you most want.
- Rate each desire with a number from “one” to “ten” based on how badly you want it. In other words, if it’s all you think about, give it a “ten”. If, on the other hand, it would be “nice” to achieve, give it a “one”.
- Then, beside each desire, ask yourself: “Truthfully, how much do I believe I will achieve it?” Rate each desire/belief in a similar way as you did in Step Two, i.e. if you believe without a shadow of a doubt you will achieve it, give it a “ten”. If you simply hope it happens, give it a “one”.
(Here’s the first secret to manifesting: Both your desires and wants must be a ten! You must both want and believe it will happen! This is why wanting is not enough! But there is more if you want to turn your dreams into reality…)
4. Next, go back to Step One and clarify which desires/beliefs are both a “ten”. Don’t bother trying to manifest anything unless both your desire and belief are a 10! This is mandatory! Once you’re certain you both want and fiercely believe in it, ask yourself: “How will I feel when ‘it’ happens—when I accomplish this?” Imagine the feelings you’ll have. What words come to mind? Relieved, proud, affirmed, secure, safe, content, peaceful, and/or excited? You must get very clear on the feeling you’ll feel when you achieve these most-wanted desires.
5. Now, here’s the biggest secret of all: Do everything in your power to feel this way NOW! Shift your internal frequency to an emotional state that resonates in faith, security, trust, hope, confidence, knowingness, and gratitude!
We must first “feel good” to receive good!
Not the other way around!
When you align your wants, beliefs, and emotions with certainty and gratitude that your desires have “already been achieved” and are “on their way”, you will embody the truth to getting what you want!
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